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How to see message requests on Messenger

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The other day you bumped into an old school friend of yours, who told you he tried to contact you on Messenger but without success. This has left you a little perplexed, as you are sure you have not received any messages from him. Tell me … did you check the message requests? No? Then the mystery is solved. Many times, in fact, Facebook collects messages from people who are not in their friends list in a “hidden” section of Messenger, which is not always easy to reach.

In the next paragraphs, therefore, you will find explained how to see message requests on Messenger and view all those messages which, for one reason or another, are automatically “hidden” by the Facebook messaging service. I already anticipate that the operation in question can only be performed from the Facebook site and from Messenger.com: the official Messenger app for smartphones and tablets, in fact, no longer offers this possibility.

So, are you ready to delve into the topic? Yup? Well: make yourself comfortable, take all the time you need to concentrate on reading the next paragraphs and, more importantly, try to implement the “tips” that I will give you. There is nothing left for me to do but wish you good reading and wish you a big good luck for everything!

How to see message requests on Android Messenger

As I mentioned in the introduction of the article, the Messenger app for Android it does not allow you to see message requests and, therefore, you cannot use it to achieve your purpose. To view Messenger’s “hidden” messages, you must use the Facebook site.

Therefore, open the browser you usually use to surf the Internet from your smartphone or tablet (eg. Chrome), type the address m.facebook.com in the address bar located at the top, come on Enter and log into your Facebook account if necessary.

At this point, even if you have to use the mobile version of the Facebook site, you must activate the desktop view, in order to avoid opening the Messenger app when you go to press the message icon within the social network. In Chrome you can do this by pressing on the symbol of three dots at the top right and placing the check mark on the box Desktop site.

On the page that opens, then tap on the icon Messenger (the comic with the lightning bolt inside) and select the link View message requests, to view the message requests. Alternatively, you can press on View filtered messages or View spam messages, to view filtered and spam messages.

I remind you that you can see the requests for messages on Messenger by also acting from Messenger.com. To do this, connect to This Page and log into your account (if necessary). In case you should see the page that invites you to download the Messenger app, activate the display of the site in desktop mode, as explained above.

How to see message requests on iPhone Messenger

Not even the Messenger app for iPhone and iPad allows you to see the message requests and, therefore, also on iOS you have to proceed through the Facebook site. Therefore, open the browser you usually use to surf the Internet from your “iPhone by” (eg. Safari), type the address m.facebook.com in the address bar located at the top and log in to your Facebook account, if necessary.

At this point, to prevent the Messenger app from opening automatically by pressing the message icon, you must view the Facebook site in desktop mode. Therefore, make a prolonged tap on the circular arrow present in the Safari address bar and press the button Request desktop site which appears below.

At this point, tap on the icon Messenger (the cartoon with the lightning bolt inside) located at the top and select the link View message requests, to view the message requests. Alternatively, tap on the items View filtered messages And View spam messages, to view filtered and spam messages.

I remind you that you can see the message requests on Messenger by also acting from Messenger.com. To do this, you need to connect to This Page and log into your account if necessary. If you were to see the page that invites you to download the Messenger app, proceed to activate the display of the site in desktop mode as explained above.

How to see message requests on Messenger computer

Message requests on Facebook desktop

You wish to act from computer? Well then know the steps you need to follow for view requests for new messages on Messenger it is not that different from the one I pointed out to you in the previous chapters.

First, then connect to the Facebook main page and, in case you haven’t already, log into your Facebook account. Once logged in, click on the button Messages (the icon of the speech bubble with lightning at the top right, in the blue bar) and click on the link See them all on Messenger. On the page that opens, click on the symbol of wheel at the top left and select the item Message requests from the menu that opens. At this point, you should be on the page that collects all the message requests that have been sent to you.

If you want to mark all message requests as read or delete them in a single click, click on the wheel symbol always on the left side of the page and select the item Mark all as read or Delete all (depending on what you want to do). To see the messages that have been filtered by Facebook, as they are considered spam, you have to click on the link instead See filtered messages located on the left and check for such messages.

I point out that you can see the requests for messages on Messenger by also acting from Messenger.com. To do this, just connect to This Page and log into your account if necessary.

How to block message requests on Messenger

Block messages on Messenger

You came to this guide with the aim of block requests for messages on Messenger? So let me briefly explain how to do it both from mobile and from computer.

  • Smartphone or tablet – launch the Messenger app on your device Android or iOS, log into your account and locate the chat relating to the contact you want to block on Messenger. Then tap on the name of the person in question (at the top), select the item Block present in the screen that opened, select the item Block on Messenger and confirm the operation by tapping the button Block from the box that opens.
  • Computer – log into Facebook from This Page, click on the button (▾) and select the item Settings from the menu that opens. In the sidebar located on the left, select the item Block and type in the text field Block messages from the first name of the Facebook user whose messages you want to block.

If you want more information on how to block messages on Messenger, I suggest you take a look at the in-depth study that I have just linked to you, in which I have provided you with further explanations regarding the procedure in question, also showing you how to block a user on Facebook. (as well as on Messenger).